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My husband and I are both in our early 40s (he’s a man and I’m a woman), and we’ve been married for a decade. Last night, ...

My wife and I used to attend sex parties all the time. Ever since she got pregnant, that came to a halt. Our son is now ...

How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, I’m a 52-year-old woman, and 20 years ago, I ...

You don’t owe this potential future boyfriend anything. For one thing, he doesn’t yet exist (at least not in your life), but ...

Eric Liu on turning fear into fuel for community-based action in the Trump era. If you can't access your feeds, please contact customer support. Thanks! Check your phone for a link to finish setting ...

Talk Easy’s Sam Fragoso on the art of getting people to open up. If you can't access your feeds, please contact customer support. Thanks! Check your phone for a ...

Dawn Graham on starting over—without starting from scratch. If you can't access your feeds, please contact customer support. Thanks! Check your phone for a link to ...

Soraya Chemaly on the power of women’s rage. Apple Podcasts will only work on MacOS operating systems since Catalina. We do not support Android apps on desktop at this time. Listen on your ...

Oliver Burkeman on making hard decisions about important things. If you can't access your feeds, please contact customer support. Thanks! Check your phone for a link ...

Laurel Braitman on grief, hope, and finding meaning in the ashes. If you can't access your feeds, please contact customer support. Thanks! Check your phone for a link ...